Woman died from diabetes after refusing medical advice as she 'didn't do needles' A woman refused to follow doctorsâ advice be...
A woman refused to follow doctorsâ advice because she âdidnât do needlesâ died after falling into a diabetic coma.
Natasha Horne, 20, kept her Type 1 diabetes diagnosis secret and refused to follow medical advice which would have let her live a normal life.
Now her heartbroken parents aim to ensure her death isnât in vain by spreading awareness of, and raising funds for, diabetes issues.
Her mother, Jackie, 43, and father Stephen, 44, described how Tashaâs reluctance to acknowledge her illness had tragic consequences.
Jackie, who lives in Middlesbrough, said: âShe was opinionated but sheâd do anything for anybody. If friends didnât have money for lunch at school, sheâd buy it for them because sheâd rather go without. Everybody knew her. She did what she did and people knew the way she was.â
Stranger caught leaving dirty surprise on students' doorstepAfter leaving school, she briefly went to college and tried various jobs, but was still trying to find her path.
Advertisement AdvertisementLast year, however, her world turned upside down when Jackie, a pharmacy manager at Lloyds on the Trunk Road, persuaded her to be tested for diabetes.
Through her job knowledge, Jackie saw the signs â" things like weight loss, excessive thirst and going to the toilet during the night â" and insisted she was tested.
Within hours, on October 16 last year, sheâd been diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes, where her body wasnât producing enough insulin to combat ketones â" organic compounds which usually lie dormant but can attack the body.
Type 1 diabetes is perfectly manageable with regular insulin injections â" Teesside singer Amelia Lily is just one high profile person living with it.
But Tasha, although reluctantly cooperative at the start, quickly retreated: âI don ât do needles,â she said.
Not even a special cannula, meaning she didnât have to insert the needle directly into the skin, helped.
Instagram model Sinead McNamara found dead on billionaire's superyachtTash, who was Eston Park prom queen in 2014 but whoâd been overweight at school, started losing weight about two years ago â" âmy first thought was âis she taking drugs?â, admitted Jackie. But Jackie and Stephen believe that the weight loss, and the compliments she received, clouded her judgement and made her mistakenly wary of putting weight back on by injecting.
Jackie said: âFor a girl covered in tattoos and piercings, she hated needles. And she was stubborn. If she didnât want to do something, she wouldnât do it.
Advertisement AdvertisementâBut we were getting so concerned because of the rapidity of the weight loss. She lost around half her body weight in two to three months. And she went from a size 22 to a size 10 in six months but she didnât see it as wrong.â
With tensions growing at home, she moved in for a time with boyfriend Jordan Rich and his mam to escape what she saw as ânaggingâ â" âshe just thought we were having a go at herâ â" but was actually parents desperately trying to get their daughter to help herself.
Stephen said: âShe just didnât understand the severity of the consequences of not taking it.â
Mum who took so much laughing gas it left her paralysed says it ruined her lifeWith her body short of the insulin it needed, she had three life-threatening DKA (diabetic ketoacidosis) attacks. And after the third on June 8 this year, a desperate Jackie even took the five-year-old sister she doted on, Scarlett, to see her in hospital.
âI told her âyou are not leaving us to sit with your little sister to tell her that her best friend is no longer here.â She said she was going to changeâ¦
âBut she was 20 â" sheâd passed the lega l age, so it was all on her. We didnât get the phone calls or letters to say she was missing medical appointments. And apart from physically pinning her down, we couldnât do any more to get her to take it.
AdvertisementâAnd hardly any of her friends knew. She wouldnât wear her medical ID bracelet so if they were on a night out and she fell ill, they wouldnât know to look for an insulin pen.
âShe always thought it would never happen to her. She just didnât want to accept what she had â" she was willing to take the risk.
âShe thought she was invincible â" she lived life her way.â
Tragically, while staying overnight at a friendâs house on Saturday, August 22, Tasha died after a suspected diabetic coma. Some of her organs are being donated for diabetic research â" âit was a no-brainer,â says Jackie.
Hundreds of pounds have also been raised for Diabetes UK through a GoFundMe page. And everyone attending her funeral on Thursd ay, September 6 at 2pm in St Hildaâs Church, Grangetown, will get a Diabetes UK âblue ribbonâ to wear.
Jackie said: âWeâve got to focus on this now â" even if itâs to help the younger generation appreciate the seriousness of it, and not to feel itâs something to be embarrassed about.
âMore help for parents would be good too. When a young person is diagnosed, most of the education goes to that person â" especially with someone like Tasha because she wasnât a kid. Itâs only because of my job I suspected â" that first attack could have been her last.
âItâs all about acceptance and education. You can get it any time in life and it doesnât have to be hereditary. Even adults are approaching me saying âI didnât know you could die from diabetes.â
âWe tried everything we could. Now, while we canât bring her back, we can help make people aware.
âI used to order her medication for her to ensure she had it to hand, then Iâd dispatch it and bring it home. The one thing I couldnât do was put it in her body.
âHer death was totally preventable but, looking back, I donât know what more we could have done.
âNow, if we can save one life, or prevent one set of parents having to go through what weâre going through, itâll be worth it.
âSheâd be horrified weâre telling everybody about it by doing this but if we can save anyone from having to sit here, doing things like thisâ¦thatâs what we want.
âIâve referred people through my work and itâs helped them their life. Itâs heart-breaking I couldnât do it for her.â
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